Help! My husband is addicted to internet porn

Join us in discussing deliverance and spiritual warfare.

Moderator: Moderator Staff

Post Reply
im_veracity
Posts: 9
Joined: Wed May 13, 2009 5:12 pm
Location: Oregon

Help! My husband is addicted to internet porn

Post by im_veracity » Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:38 pm

My husband has been watching internet porn. I found it in his IE history. He now knows how to delete it from his history but I found it in his temporary internet files. I have been delivered from these types of demons myself. I know that I can't even bring up the topic with my husband. What can I do?

User avatar
irishstout1
Posts: 88
Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 6:59 pm
Location: Oklahoma---Michigan, USA

DELIVERED

Post by irishstout1 » Sat Sep 17, 2011 4:18 am

HI, i was hooked on porn from the age of 9 until age 45 , became a christian at that age , and told God that i couldnt stop , but wanted to , and he put a scriptutre in my mind , which i had never read before (JOB 10:10 )and was sent free, praise God , so read this scripture over him and pray that God would deliver him , but if he doesnt want to, then you need to have God put the desire to want to ------ now if you are thinking a spirit, look at how long i had the problem and couldnt quit and it didnt take casting out any spirit , but do believe it is a spirit , so casting it out would also work -------- now after he still needs to cut the soul ties .May God bless you with your husbands deliverence , as it is HIS will .

im_veracity
Posts: 9
Joined: Wed May 13, 2009 5:12 pm
Location: Oregon

scripture

Post by im_veracity » Sat Sep 17, 2011 4:26 am

Thanks for responding. I looked up Job 10:10 and this is what I found:

Job 10:10
King James Version (KJV)
10Hast thou not poured me out as milk, and curdled me like cheese?

Is that the scripture you are talking about? If it is, I don't see the relevance. Please explain.

Your testimony really encouraged me!

CeCe
Posts: 40
Joined: Thu Apr 01, 2010 1:14 pm

Post by CeCe » Wed Sep 28, 2011 3:51 pm

Hey,

I was wondering about something and was wondering what you thought about it.

I saw this man on Dr. Phil and he was addicted to pornography and the "m" word. I hate that word. Anyhow, I think him and his girlfriend were having sex so that means that whatever evil spirits were in him could transfer to her.

I was thinking of a scripture that said, "when a man and woman lay together, they are one in body." I know I've read that somewhere and was thinking about your situation, if you could be effected by any spirits your husband has from his sexual sins?

Wondering what you all thought about that and the scripture, have you ever heard of it?

CeCe
Posts: 40
Joined: Thu Apr 01, 2010 1:14 pm

Post by CeCe » Wed Sep 28, 2011 3:55 pm

Oh, here it is:

1 Corinthians 6:16, "What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh."

So, you and him are one flesh? Are there any ways that a woman can take precaution is she and her husband are having intercourse but she doesn't want any evil spirits to transfer to her?

I am asking because I plan on getting married soon and didn't go through deliverance for two years just to have evil spirits transfer because we would be one in flesh.

So, glad you brought this up because I never really thought about it in aspects of my life.

Thanks

Elijah2
Posts: 232
Joined: Wed Nov 01, 2006 9:23 pm
Location: Australia

Re: Help! My husband is addicted to internet porn

Post by Elijah2 » Sat Oct 01, 2011 5:35 am

im_veracity wrote:My husband has been watching internet porn. I found it in his IE history. He now knows how to delete it from his history but I found it in his temporary internet files. I have been delivered from these types of demons myself. I know that I can't even bring up the topic with my husband. What can I do?
Blessing my dear sister,

I can understand your concern, but when the powers of darkness is given authority over the household through your husband who is supposedly be the “head of the family”, then mayhem will rule the "soul". You can pray and have demons cast out of our “soul”, our “house”, but if the “house is empty, swept and put in order”, then they will return with ease, and they will take up residence deep down within the “soul” and “eyes”. They will make sure that they won’t be evicted again, and will use all the ploys to endeavour to stay for good.

Repentance and the remission of sins is the start point for any release from powers, principalities, spiritual hosts, and rulers of darkness.

While your husband is involved in such, as the "head", then legal rights have been given to them to control your husband and even yourself. Only a quick shake that will bring him to his knees will bring that release from evil and to be set free.

Your husband may still have much rejection, hurt, offence and anger in his “soul”, and lacks any love or forgiveness.

Well like all electronic equipment and if you are “endued in power” of the Holy Spirit, then I would take control of spiritual disturbances in your household by anointing your household, and possible get good solider warrior to come into your household and cleanse it. His computer will also be contaminated by the powers of darkness, so go into his computer room and pray the Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ all over the room, anoint his computer with oil, pray over it, and cast out demons of pornography, obsession, rejection and any other weakness in his life. Now this may seem strange to you but demons do dwell in "dry places", which is the place that “the roaring lion roams” and devours those people who are empty, swept, and put in order.

Blessings.

im_veracity
Posts: 9
Joined: Wed May 13, 2009 5:12 pm
Location: Oregon

Thank you for answering

Post by im_veracity » Tue Oct 04, 2011 9:29 pm

I'm praying for repentance and for him to want to be delivered. I was so angry last night that I almost blurted out "Stop watching that damned porn!" I still think he doesn't know that I know.
My husband does have much hurt, rejection, and anger. He's downright stubborn and rebellious sometimes, which is witchcraft. Most of the time he is a pretty nice man.
We have very little honest communication. If I bring something up he doesn't want to talk about, he has a burst of extreme anger but them gets over it very quickly. It does intimidate me from bringing up anything. This leads to things we don't deal with building up in me until I'm ready to burst. It takes a long time but eventually I do sometimes.
I know who I am in Christ Jesus and am a pretty powerful prayer warrior. I have cleansed our house, the computer room, and his computer. Yesterday I found that he had been watching porn again. It almost makes me sick. It hurts me and then I get angry but keep my mouth shut and pray and also forgive him, all without him even knowing. I know this isn't healthy for our marriage. I also know that if he doesn't want to be delivered, he won't be. Or, Like you said, he could end up in a worse condition.
Possibly me reaching a boiling point and screaming at him to "Stop watching that filthy porn!" could be the quick shake that he needs to bring him to his knees and repentance.
I am realizing that even though my husband is mostly good to me, it's the 1% of the time when he loses his temper a raves for a few seconds at me that keeps me intimidated and keeps me from saying anything to him. I believe I'm going to refuse to be intimidated, risk being yelled at, and go ahead and speak my mind. It's the enemy trying to intimidate me. Fear is a spirit and that's what intimidation is. In Jesus name, I refuse to be intimidated!
Thank you for your response. As you can see, it really got me thinking!
Blessings!

Elijah2
Posts: 232
Joined: Wed Nov 01, 2006 9:23 pm
Location: Australia

Post by Elijah2 » Wed Oct 05, 2011 1:53 am

Is your husband really saved?

Why do you call yourself “veracity”?

You don’t pray for repentance, you repent your sins and confess your sins.

For your husband to want be delivered, he needs to be saved, and it’s very obvious he isn’t saved. Anyone can pray the “sinners prayer”!

Salvation Scriptures

“When His disciples heard it, they were greatly astonished, saying, ‘Who then can be saved?’ But Jesus looked at them and said to them, ‘With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’ Then Peter answered and said to Him, ‘See, we have left all and followed You. Therefore what shall we have?’ So Jesus said to them, “Assuredly I say to you, that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His glory, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life.” Matt. 19:25-30)

“Then they will deliver you up to tribulation and kill you, and you will be hated by all nations for My name’s sake. And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another. Then many false prophets will rise up and deceive many. And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. But he who endures to the end shall be saved. And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a witness to all the nations, and then the end will come.” (Matt. 24:11-14)

“And He said to them, ‘Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature. He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned. And these signs will follow those who believe: In My name they will cast out demons; they will speak with new tongues…they will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover.’” (Mark 13:15-8)

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” (John 3:16-17)

“I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture.” (John 10:9)

“And it shall come to pass hat whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.” (Acts 2:21)

“And he brought them out and said, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” So they said, “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house. And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their stripes. And immediately he and all his family were baptized.” (Acts 16:30-33)

Salvation Doesn’t Mean that Satan Cannot Touch You

Salvation is the most important decision that any person can make in their life it’s when they make a sincere commitment to follow our Lord Jesus Christ as their Saviour, Master, King and Lord of their life. On that day our Lord Jesus Christ was standing before us with HIS arms open wide saying, “Trust Me. Believe in Me. I love you and want to have a personal relationship with you!”

Our Lord Jesus Christ is our defender, HE is our provider, and HE died on a cross to make a new and exciting life possible for us. The dark Occultic world of Satan may have held a certain appeal to us in our past life, but that was only temporary---God, our Lord Jesus Christ made us a better offer, in a satisfying and purposeful relationship with HIM.

In John 14:6, our Lord Jesus Christ said, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” So when we become saved we:

1. Admitted that we are sinner and have a need for a relationship with our Heavenly Father through our Lord Jesus Christ.

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Rom. 3:23).

2. Were willing to confess and repent by turning away from our sin and start living a life depending on God, our Lord Jesus Christ.

“That if confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved” (Rom. 10:9).

3. Believing that our Lord Jesus Christ died for us on the cross and after three days rose from the grave.

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8).

4. By our simple act of faith, through prayer, inviting our Lord Jesus Christ to come in and control our life through the Holy Spirit.

“Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come to him and dine with him, and he with Me” (Rev. 3:20).

Also Mark 16:16 states that we BELIEVE and be BAPTISED to be “saved”!

Most of us began our “Steps of Freedom” from the power of darkness by praying a simple prayer aloud, and if possible with another believer, something like this:

Heavenly Father, I come to You through our Lord Jesus Christ.

I admit that I am a sinner and need Your forgiveness.

I believe that Your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ died for my sins and I want to turn away from my sins and start following Him.

I now invite You, our Lord Jesus Christ to come into my heart and life.

I want to trust You as my King of Kings, Lord of Lords, Saviour and the Master of my life and there is no other master in my life but YOU, our Lord Jesus Christ.

I acknowledge that our Lord Jesus Christ who is our Almighty God; was born of a virgin; came to earth in the flesh; died on the cross; arose from the grave three days later; and now sits at the right hand of His Father, our Heavenly Father.

I now confirm that You, our Lord Jesus Christ that You are my King, Lord, Saviour, Master and my Almighty God.

I pray this in Jesus’ Name. (AMEN)

Because we are saved, we are required to be NOT conformed to the world, and we endeavour to transform and renew our brain and our heart. This action is much the same as coming out of Egypt, as we shift gear from one place to another (Exodus 3:7-10). I believe that your husband is still in Egypt.

There are a number of lessons that we need to learn, we need to be still, resist Satan and his forces, because when we flee Egypt and move out into the wilderness the “roaring lion” begins to chase us trying his hardest to “devour us” (1 Pet. 5:8).

Many who escape from Egypt still have deep down sense of shame, and feeling as though they are NOT able to fit in, even though our Lord Jesus Christ has touched our lives, and am saved, but our torment and harassment is still there in many.

HE sees our misery, and our old thinking of health and finance problems and fear that caused much anxiety and stress, and sometimes leading to depression. These are the times when Satan and his forces attacks.

A question I will ask you now. Has your husband been involved in witchcraft, occult, new age, or Freemasonry?

But HE did say that HE will fight for us, but we need to be still (Exodus 14:10-15).

We still try to be in control and we reject the provisions of HIM, because we didn’t like to hear what someone else had to say.

In Exodus 17:8-15 we can see how Satan and his forces attack, whispering doubt and confusion into our ears, and also allowing our eyes to be distracted by sexual fantasies.

Satan has power as he whispers, through false teaching and doctrine, and through the doctrine of demons he seduces and deceives.

Far too many claim the milk and honey, but they don’t see the giants because of the false teaching and doctrine, and don’t see that they are grasshoppers, and when the “giants” rise up in front of us, and we hide behind false teaching and doctrine, believing that we are adequate, when in fact we are inadequate. By this attitude, we then allow the world to dictate to you, and live a false life that she’s all right mate!

These “giants” are the ones that “devour” us, and keep us in bondage; and sadly they are the believers who still struggle with many illnesses.

I do wonder if your husband is still being controlled by “inherited demons” that have been passed down by the “sins of the fathers”, bit we find that when we have an ongoing point of personal struggles we have possibly been severely damaged by “inherited spirits”.

Your husband has to give his confusion and anger over to our Lord Jesus Christ, but I believe he needs to know whether he is saved or not, which I doubt very much. Freemason curses themselves and their families, allowing demonic infestation that can be passed from generation to generation.

We find when people wallow in negative reactions to emotional wounds they often get demonised.

So how much verbal, sexual, or physical abuse has there been in your husband’s life and your life?

We also find that in response to these types of abuse we react in anger, resentment, and unforgiveness, and when we hold onto these emotions we become demonised.

When we are still in HIS WORD, HE will make provision for us, because HE is our banner. When we step up and be counted, that is, we cleanse our hands of everything that is sinful and holding us back; and purify our hearts, by ensuring that our “house” isn’t “empty, swept, and put in order” (Luke 11:24-26). And this is accomplished by confession, REPENTANCE, forgiveness, and love; and NOT some false belief that because you are saved that Satan, his forces, and his children can’t touch you, that false teaching and complete rubbish. You have garbage in your “house”, and then rats will live in that garbage.

You have any form of doubt and confusion and sin in your life, then they will attack through whatever means that they can, after all HIS WORD does say to put on the whole Armour of God, and WITHSTAND and STAND and be SOBER and VIGILANT.

“When His disciples heard it, they were greatly astonished, saying, ‘Who then can be saved?’ But Jesus looked at them and said to them, ‘With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’ Then Peter answered and said to Him, ‘See, we have left all and followed You. Therefore what shall we have?’ So Jesus said to them, “Assuredly I say to you, that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His glory, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life.” Matt. 19:25-30)

“Then they will deliver you up to tribulation and kill you, and you will be hated by all nations for My name’s sake. And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another. Then many false prophets will rise up and deceive many. And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. But he who endures to the end shall be saved. And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a witness to all the nations, and then the end will come.” (Matt. 24:11-14)

“And He said to them, ‘Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature. He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned. And these signs will follow those who believe: In My name they will cast out demons; they will speak with new tongues…they will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover.’” (Mark 13:15-8)

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” (John 3:16-17)

“I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture.” (John 10:9)

“And it shall come to pass hat whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.” (Acts 2:21)

“And he brought them out and said, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” So they said, “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house. And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their stripes. And immediately he and all his family were baptized.” (Acts 16:30-33)

Basically all humans are nice, good, and kind people, but we are still proud people and fail to say those favourite three little words of mine: I thank you, If you please, You are right, I am wrong, Please forgive me, I forgive you, and I love you. Do you say them all the time, and what about your husband.

Well my dear sister it’s time you be direct, honest, and truthful to your husband, because you are being deceitful by spying on him, and you need to put an end to it.

It’s time that you WITHSTOOD, and STAND.

You need to do this to save your marriage, because you continue to be angry then you have given Satan and his forces a foot in the door. They only come to steal, destroy, and kill.

The time has come for you to bring this to our Lord Jesus Christ and be honest with your husband, because he needs help, and so do you.

You start screaming and accusing him of watching filthy porn will end your marriage.

Ask your husband: “Do you love me?” Then ask him: “Why?”

And if it’s all positive, then say to him: “I love you, and forgive you for watching pornography!”

Now before you do this you need to go into prayer telling HIM that you confess your deceitfulness and anger to your husband, that you repent it, and ask him for forgiveness. Also, speak to your pastor first for more advice that you want to bring this spirit to its knees and out of your husband.

I am sorry my dear sister, we can pray til the cows come home, but if there is sin in the household, all those prayers will be nullified by the enemy.

You just have to pray forgiveness and love over your husband daily, and ask HIM to bring his sin to his attention.

Of he wont’ want to be delivered because he is demonised, and his house is empty, swept, and put in order. You can set a demonised person from captivity, if they are walking in carnal man.

Why does he lose 1%, when in fact he is less than 40% of being the head of the family, and the other 60% is given to the powers of darkness. His faith needs a shake-up.

A born again Christian does lose their temper and raves for a few seconds at me that keeps me intimidated and keeps me from saying anything to him. That person is a demon!

No you don’t yell when you are intimidated, just say to your husband: “Why are you saying that or why are you like that?”

You continue to be intimidated while your husband is possessed!

Blessings

Post Reply